Why Eloping Can Be the Perfect Choice: Samantha and Lewey’s Wedding at Hempstead House

Why Eloping Can Be the Perfect Choice

Not every couple dreams of a big, traditional wedding. For Samantha and Lewey, an intimate elopement felt right. They chose the stunning Hempstead House as the backdrop for their vows, with only their best friend officiating—and their dog right by their side. No grand ballroom, no long guest list—just the two of them, standing together, promising forever, with their four-legged companion as their unofficial (but very important) witness.

As a photographer, being invited to capture such a personal moment is always an honor. But when Samantha and Lewey asked me to serve as their witness, it added a whole new level of meaning. It’s one thing to document a couple’s love story; it’s another to be a part of it. And having their dog there? That just made it all the more special.

Eloping strips away the expectations and pressure of a traditional wedding, leaving room for what truly matters. There’s no worrying about seating charts or centerpieces—just two people choosing each other, fully present in the moment. For some, that simplicity is exactly what makes it feel so special.

Of course, eloping doesn’t mean sacrificing beauty or significance. Samantha and Lewey’s day was filled with emotion, laughter, and a setting that suited them perfectly. Their wedding wasn’t about performance—it was about them, their commitment, and the joy of sharing it in the way that felt most authentic. And really, what could be more perfect than celebrating love with your best friend and your best pup?

For couples feeling overwhelmed by the idea of a big wedding, an elopement can be a freeing, meaningful alternative. No matter how you say “I do,” the most important thing is that it feels right for you.